Category Conduct

Do you know what color therapy or color psychology consists of? It is about using colors to change a mood or behavior. Colors help us calm down, or on the contrary, they give us more energy. And colors, yes, they also help us to concentrate, for example, according to interior designer Susanna Cots, white is the most beneficial color for children's creativity.

Many times it happens, when we have a celebration with family and friends, and we go to a restaurant, that what was going to be a fantastic day of meeting and laughter, turns into a whirlwind of shouts, threats and tears for the behavior that our people have. children at the table. It is not a question of looking for culprits, but it is a question of being aware of the mistakes that parents make with their children in a restaurant.

Psychopathy can be understood as a developmental disorder that affects empathy and that, in addition, causes a lack of feelings of guilt in the individual who suffers from it. What happens when it affects the little one? What is a psychopathic child like and how to treat him? We put a little light on child psychopathy.

Children need to gradually have help to control the intensity of their emotions, but first they must learn to recognize them and understand that it is okay to feel them, that we all feel happy, angry, sad or afraid at times and what we should do , is to find the best way to live our emotion so that it does not harm us or others either.

All girls go through a stage of admiration for dad: he is her favorite, it is with him that they want to go everywhere, play, have fun ... It is the well-known & 39; papitis & 39; phase. normal in the development of every girl that begins around 3 or 4 years and reaches its maximum expression around 5-6 years.

The Oedipus or Electra complex (depending on whether it is a boy or a girl), is a phase of falling in love with mom or dad that all children experience in a more or less marked way. It is a normal period in the development of every child who It begins around 3 or 4 years old and reaches its maximum expression around 5.

Tolerating frustration is accepting that things don't always turn out the way you would like and controlling all that anger and anger to transform it into effort and move on. It is excellent learning for children from a very young age.To achieve this, parents must teach children to channel all that anger and frustration.

Sensitivity is a quality with which one is born and, who possesses it, is able to relate all the events of their daily life with their senses and emotions. Sensitivity can be understood as the ability to experience physical impressions, and this is a function corresponding to the nerves.

Children complain and protest, especially when they are young. That a little one is complaining all day is normal since it is their way of telling you that they do not agree with what you are saying, the problem is that if you do not stop these complaints in time it can become a & 39; chronic complainer & 39; .

Psychology has shown us that, in few cases, punishment is effective. The goal in education is to consolidate positive behaviors in children and eliminate negative behaviors, and this is much better achieved through reinforcement and extinction. We consider 'reinforcement'. to any positive consequence, and beware, make no mistake with material rewards, the best reinforcement for children can be very cheap, is the attention of their parents.

Children often cannot express their emotions well through words. However, when you leave them some colored pens and a sheet of paper, their feelings and emotions flow as if by magic, with astonishing ease. This is why many child psychologists use pictures to interpret whether a child may have a problem.

Children in their maturation go through different stages of evolutionary development. The tantrums, in this case, appear in one of those stages. It is characterized by being a period in which the little ones are very impulsive. Parents tend to get very nervous when children cry and scream without consolation.

How it hurts (and worries) when you come home after a hard day's work, you ask your son for a kiss and he turns around and locks himself in his room, right? The first thing we think is that it happened to him something at school, but maybe we're wrong. Many times we have behaviors that take children away from their parents without realizing it.

The other day I went to the park with my son and I saw a girl of about 3 years crying inconsolably because her ice cream had fallen on the floor. The caregiver in charge did not pay any interest to calm the anguish and sadness of the girl, who did not stop complaining. What surely the woman did not know is that ignoring children when they cry, not calming them, can have fatal consequences.